I must say I do not do resolutions. Been there, done that. But, I've been so into this new year so far that I've decided to set a goal. I have just been excited to see 2009. Lots of anticipation but I have no idea why??? But I do know a way that I would like to change and why! I need a new attitude. My goal for 2009 is to loosen up! I get so wrapped up in what should be, I don't enjoy what is. I am literally going to force myself to stop, breathe and take a step back on those occasions when I can feel my blood pressure sky-rocket and the flames are coming out of my ears!! And yes, the kids and/or Big Daddy are usually involved. I seem to hold it together better when it is not them! So now, my goal is to hold it together when it is them. Cause basically, in the whole scheme of things, what sets me off sometimes just isn't all that! Now, don't get me wrong there are times when it's warranted, but I'm talking about the times when exploding is NOT the way to react!! So I'm gonna learn to chill! And I have a feeling the relationships that mean the most to me, will be better for it!
That's the biggie, the other is a family goal. Big Daddy has been told for 2 years to lose weight and he keeps piling it on. Well now his health is affected so it's time and he is willing to do it!! I need to get in better shape also and would like to lose a few! So our family goal is to get healthy! I'm joining in Think Thin Thursday as a support for this goal! Check it out!